I truly enjoyed reading Margaret Carlisle Duncan’s 1998 article entitled “Stories We Tell Ourselves About Ourselves”. It was a wonderful combination of stories filled with thick description and explanations of the important elements of these stories. I found the method of Duncan’s (1998) writing particularly effective, as it captured my attention and spread the analytical and narrative throughout the paper.
There were two things within Duncan’s (1998) paper that struck me personally. The first was her story about Steven. Steven was a new student in her class, joining in the middle of her sixth grade fall term. He was short, skinny, had brown eyes and hair, and looked very average (Duncan, 1998, p. 95). What struck me so much about this story was the fact that, in some ways, I was Steven. I too was a new student in the middle of my sixth grade fall semester. I too was short, skinny, had brown eyes and hair, and looked very average. While I did not have a particular problem with dodge ball performance, I did have a slight accent and dress funny. I was moving from rural Missouri to sub-urban Ohio. Ohio kids listened to rock and rap, while I listened to country music. I wore a belt and tucked in my shirt, a point that was particularly the focus of ridicule until I finally caved to the pressure and changed.
Her description of the cafeteria line and lunchroom particularly disturbed me. While, thankfully, no one was grabbing at my crotch, I was tortured for being new and different. I ate lunch alone for my first several weeks. One particularly viscous group of children would throw food at me and ask me vulgar questions those first months. While Duncan was on the outside looking in, I believe she captured Steven’s experience and created a true story (Duncan, 1998).
I also found Duncan’s (1998) approach of a hierarchy of voices to be an interesting technique. I have never considered the importance of taking the role of the “Other” in a narrative (Duncan, 1998). It emphasizes that most important ability, empathy. Without the ability to share the feelings of others, it is difficult or impossible to move to a higher level of thought. It reminds me of the important developmental step of children, when they realize that their actions have consequences on other feelings.